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ANGIN-ANGIN sejuk mengipas-ngipas wajah manusia. Mengepung anggota tubuh rakyat Parepare. Tetapi, seorang lelaki berusia 21 tahun menuai kegerahan di kota itu.

“Aku ingin menikahimu!” tegas suara Umar di ujung telepon sembari mengucurkan keringat melalui celah leher bajunya.

“Iya, aku juga siap!” suara wanita itu menjawab keseriusan Umar. Perasaan Umar 
serasa terbang bak burung yang baru lepas dari sangkarnya. Keringatnya mengering tiba-tiba di tepi leher bajunya.

Dua manusia tengah menapaki jalan menuju jenjang kesucian. Mereka saling berjauhan. Umar berlibur di Kota Parepare, sementara wanita itu di Kabupaten Pangkep. Meskipun jarak mereka berjauhan, tapi komunikasi lewat telepon itu semakin memperkecil jarak tersebut. Bahkan semakin dekat, hanya 5 cm.

Enam bulan yang lalu…

Umar merupakan mahasiswa semester V. Kegiatannya selain kuliah adalah asisten Laboratorium Komputer. Dunia luas ini yang semakin bertebaran ilmu pengetahuan membuat dirinya berkomitmen tetap maju pada segala disiplin ilmu.

“Meskipun saya sudah di belakang, tapi saya tidak mau terbelakang!” pekik motto hidupnya. Sehingga sejak di bangku kuliah, ia selalu mendapatkan penghargaan dari beberapa dosen. Walhasil, salah seorang dosen komputer hendak mengangkatnya sebagai asisten. Setelah terangkat, Umar menuai kesibukan begitu banyak. Jadwal istirahat semakin kurang, jam belajar menipis. Membuatnya mengeluh di dalam hati.

“Letih juga pekerjaan demikian!” suara hati Umar ketika itu.

Dua pekanan berlangsung praktikum komputer, salah seorang mahasiswi yang diajar Umar mulai melirik. Umar tak menyangka hal demikian. Wanita itu merupakan adik kelasnya. Hanya berbeda setahun. Kadang wanita itu menelpon, membicarakan tugas-tugas komputer. Bahkan tanpa disangka Umar, wanita itu menjadikannya tumpahan hati. Meminta solusi dari persoalan yang dihadapi wanita itu. Hal demikianlah membuat hubungan mereka berdua semakin erat. Bukan lagi sebatas adik kelas. Lebih dari itu!

Hari-hari letih yang dialami Umar berubah. Keletihan tak lagi berkunjung. Kobaran semangat datang. Hati menggebu-gebu menyapa.

“Inikah cinta?” suara hati Umar berbisik di bawah temaram lampu kamarnya.

Tanpa disangka, Umar hendak menyatakan cinta kepada wanita itu. Namun, cinta Umar tak seperti lelaki lain yang hanya mencari kepuasan sementara. Cinta Umar tak sinonim pacaran.

“Pacaran itu tidak pernah dilakukan para nabi, sahabat, dan ulama!” sebutnya jika berdebat.

Kepribadian Umar adalah menelaah buku-buku Islam, mulai dari perkara dasar Islam hingga perkara luas: buku fiqih, aqidah, tauhid, hukum-hukum, dan mengenai pemerintahan Islam.

Komitmennya yaitu meminang wanita itu. Memang sejak semester I, ia berangan-angan menikah.

“Menikah merupakan sunnah rasul itu. Hubungan lelaki dan wanita dalam ikatan nikah adalah halal, sementara selain itu haram. Menikah harus dipercepat. Jika tidak, maka fitnah akan datang.” kutipan buku yang dibaca Umar.

Umar berusaha mengenalnya lebih dekat. Wanita itu bernama Hj. Nurnita. Label “Hj” merupakan singkatan dari Hadjah, artinya seorang wanita yang telah menunaikan rukun Islam kelima: naik haji bagi yang mampu. Umar terkaget-kaget ketika mengetahui wanita itu sudah berhaji. Umur 20 tahun, menurutnya usia sangat muda dan tidak semua orang pergi ke Baitullah. Hanya strata konglomerat bisa menuju ke sana.

“Pasti ia anak orang kaya!” celoteh Umar dalam hati.

Kadang pula bersemayam dalam hatinya untuk tidak melamarnya, mengingat mahar wanita seperti ini tinggi. Akan tetapi, kendala demikian bukan penghalang yang membuatnya mengurungkan niat meminangnya. Sebab, sejak dahulu ia menanti mahligai pernikahan ini. Ia menanti saat-saat terindah menyempurnakan setengah dari agama: menikah. Bahkan, dalam setiap do’a di antara adzan dan iqamah, kerap ia selipkan permintaan ini,

“Ya Alloh, mudahkanlah aku untuk menikah!” pintanya sambil merundukkan kepala, berharap maharnya murah.

SubhanAlloh. Ternyata do’a Umar dikabulkan.

“Tenang saja, kakak. Saya akan membantu menambah uang kakak!” ujar wanita itu ketika Umar mengeluh tinggihnya putusan maharnya nanti.

Semangat Umar semakin membara. Wanita itu menepis keluhannya. Umar makin cinta kepadanya. Pada kesempatan ini, ia mencoba memberanikan diri, maju ke rumah wanita itu. Umar menelpon wanita itu,

“Kapan aku ke Pangkep menemui orang tuamu?” pintanya berharap datang ke orang tua wanita itu untuk melamar.

“…..!” senyap wanita itu. Tak mengira Umar serius ingin melamarnya. Wanita itu terkaget-kaget.

“Nanti saja, Kak. Nanti, saya kabari jika orang di rumah sudah siap!” Hati Umar tak kuasa menahan penantian. Menunggu baginya menyakitkan.

Tiga hari kemudian…

Umar kembali ke kota asalanya: Makassar. Tak terasa waktu yang dinanti-nantika tiba. Wanita itu menelpon. Detak jantung umar semakin deras. Berfluktuasi tak beraturan. Menanti ucapan wanita itu. Apakah ada panggilan ke rumahnya atau tidak. Sungguh, detik-detik menegangkan.

“Iya, besok kakak bisa ke rumah!”

Hati Umar meletup-letup. Akhirnya bisa berkunjung menemui orang tuanya. Umar menyiapkan segala-galanya, penampilan fisik mulai ditata, dan meminta kepada Rabb-nya,

“Ya Alloh, mudahkan!”

Esok hari, pukul 08.00, Umar menuju daerah kecil itu: Pangkep. Perjalanan sekitar 300 km. Setiap kali ia melempar pandangan ke luar jendela mobil, terbetik dalam hatinya, “Aku akan menghadapi dua keadaan genting. Entah diterima atau ditolak!”

Awan-awan kapas berwarna biru lembut turun. Mengapung rendah hendak menyentuh permukaan laut yang surut jauh, itulah Kepulauan Pangkep. Tepat pukul 14.00, Umar tiba di daerah yang luasnya 1.112 km2 itu. Umar tak langsung menuju rumah wanita itu. Tapi ia ke masjid menunaikan shalat dzuhur yang akan di jamak-qashar dengan shalat ashar. Mengingat dirinya adalah mushafir. Seusai shalat, Umar kembali menengadahkan tangannya ke atas, berdo’a dengan penuh pengharapan kepada Rabbnya,

“Ya Alloh, mudahkanlah segalanya!”

Dan ia menutup do’anya,

“Wahai yang membolak-balikkan hati, tetapkanlah hatiku di atas agamamu.”

“Kring… Kring… Kring!” suara HP umar berbunyi. Ternyata wanita itu menelpon sedang memanggil Umar segera ke rumahnya.

“Silahkan ke rumah, Kak!” ujar wanita itu memanggil lembut Umar.

Sekali lagi, jantung Umar terengah-engah bersiap menghadapi peristiwa besar dalam hidupnya. Ini pertama kalinya ia melamar wanita dan tanpa di temani seorang pun.

Jarak masjid ke rumah wanita itu, cukup 70 langkah. Umar masuk ke rumahnya sembari mengucapkan salam di daun pintu rumahnya. Lalu, ia dipersilahkan masuk oleh keluarga wanita itu. Umar pun bergegas masuk dan duduk di sofa mewah. Tepat di depan tempat duduk Umar, ibu wanita itu duduk. Mulailah Umar menyampaikan niatnya,

“Ibu, aku memiliki niat baik. Aku hendak melamar anak gadis, Ibu!” ujar Umar yang sangat meyakinkan.

Ibu wanita itu tergegun sejenak melihat keberanian Umar. Ibu itu tak langsung menjawab, ia mendiskusikan dengan beberapa anaknya dulu. Setelah diskusi, ibu itu masuk ke dalam rumah. Saudari-saudari wanita itu mewakili jawaban ibu itu,

“Dek, kami masih mau Hj. Nurnita kuliah, bukan menikah!”

Umar mematung. Jawaban itu cukup ringkas, tapi mampu meretakkan dan meledakkan cita-cita Umar. Umar mengetahui bahwa benang merahnya adalah tak jadi menikah dengan wanita idamannya.

“Lelaki itu kuat!” kata hatinya paling dalam. Membuatnya tak putus asa. Meskipun pihak keluarga wanita menolak, ia tak ambil hati.

“Mungkin Alloh memberikan jodoh yang lain!” ujar Umar sambil merundukkan padangannya ke lantai. Umar menarik napas panjang-panjang dan bertutur,

“Saya permisi dulu!” intonasi suara Umar melemah dan gagap.

Akhirnya, Umar kembali ke Makassar dengan penuh kepedihan.

Di atas mobil sewa itu, angin dingin menyerbu lewat jendela, menampar-nampar wajah Umar. Ia melempar pandangan ke sana sembari berkata,

“Alhamdulillah dalam segala keadaan. Ku telah menunaikan kewajibanku sebagai lelaki yang mencintai seseorang. Bukanlah keberhasilan diukur dengan diterimanya lamaran, tapi bagiku keberhasilan itu adalah mampu melamar wanita itu di depan ibunya.”

Di ujung ekor mata Umar, terlihat kesedihan mendalam. Meluap-luap kekecewaan. Namun, Umar seorang lelaki kuat, ia tak mau menitikkan air matanya. Ia selalu menepis kekecewaan itu dengan mengigat firman Alloh,

“Bisa jadi di sisimu itu baik, tapi di sisi Alloh itu buruk bagimu.”

Tiga bulan Umar trauma atas kejadian ini. Ini memoar tak terlupakan selama hidupnya. Kadang linangan air mata menetap lama di selaput matanya. Hanya do’a sebagai pelipur lara baginya. Dalam do’anya, ia berucap,

“Wahai yang membolak-balikkan hati, tetapkanlah hatiku di atas agamamu.” Ia lebih baik tidak mendapatkan wanita itu, ketimbang tidak mendapatkan hidayah dari Alloh
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Kupinang You with the true story of Tears cool breeze mengipas-ngipas BREEZE-human face. Siege of limbs of Pare-Pare. However, a 21-year-old man reaping kegerahan in the city.

"I want to menikahimu!" stated at the end of the phone sounds Umar disbursed through the cracks while you sweat the neck of her dress.

"Yes, I'm also ready!" the voice of the woman answering the seriousness of Umar. The feeling of flying bird bathtub seemed Omar's new off of the nest. Keringatnya dried up abruptly at the edge of the neck of her dress.

Two central tread the path to human level of purity. They are far apart. Umar on vacation in town of Pare-Pare, while the woman was in Pangkep. Despite their distance apart, but it was telephonic communication is increasingly narrowing the gap. Even getting close, just 5 cm.

Six months ago ...

Umar is a semester Student Activities in addition to v. College Computer Lab Assistant is. This vast world that is increasingly scattered science make him stay committed on all advanced disciplines.

"Even though I was behind, but I don't want retarded!" the motto of his life. pekik So since in College, she's always getting awards from some of the professors. The result, one of the first professors appointed him Assistant to computer. Once raised, Umar reaped a flurry of so many. Schedule breaks less, hours learning to thin out. Make him whine in our hearts.

"Jaded also work so!" the voice of the heart. ' Umar

Two pekanan held computer Practicum instructors, one student who taught Umar began to glance at. Umar did not think so. The woman is the sister of his class. Only different year. Sometimes the woman phoning, talking about computer tasks. Even without the woman suspected Umar, making spills of the heart. Ask for a solution of the problems faced by women. It thus makes a relationship they both are getting tighter. No longer limited to a younger class. More than that!

Weary days experienced by Umar changed. Exhaustion no longer visit. Blaze spirit comes. Heart of passion greet.

"2005 Inikah cinta?" the inner voice whispered beneath the twilight of Umar's lamp room.

Without the alleged, Umar was about to declare his love to the woman. However, unlike the males love Umar and other just looking for temporary satisfaction. Umar was a synonym for courting love.

"Courting it never performed the prophets, companions, and scholars!" sebutnya if arguing.

Umar's personality is reviewing Islamic books, ranging from basic to Islam until the case litigated area: the book Fiqh, aqidah, tauhid, laws, and about the Islamic Government.

His commitment that is proposed to the woman. Indeed since the first half, he dreamed of being married.

"It is the sunnah of the Prophet was Married. Male and female relationships in the bond of marriage is lawful, while in addition the haram. Married should be accelerated. If not, then the slander. "quote reads ' Umar.

Umar tried to know her closer. The woman was named Hj. Nurnita. The Label "Hj" stands for Hadjah, meaning a woman who has been on going for the five pillars of Islam: the pilgrimage for those who can afford. Umar terkaget-kaget to learn the woman was already make Hajj. Age 20 years, his age is very young and not everyone goes to the House. Simply strata conglomerate could be heading there.

"Certainly he is the rich kid!" babble. hearts of Umar

Sometimes also resides in his heart not to ask for her hand, bearing in mind the dowry woman like this. However, such barriers are not a barrier that makes her undo the intention meminangnya. So, from this marriage he awaits in the lagoon. He awaits perfecting his fondest moments of religion: half married. In fact, in any drying in between, often giving the adhaan and iqamah Iâ tuck this request, "Yes, I'm mudahkanlah to Alloh married!" while pintanya merundukkan head, hope maharnya cheap.

Yang. It turns out do'a Umar granted.

"Quiet, older brother. I'll help add money sister! "said the woman when Umar complained tinggihnya maharnya verdict later.

The spirit of Umar strengthened. The woman shook off the complaint. Umar makin love to him. On this occasion, he ventured forward, try to the woman's House. Umar called the woman, "when I met your parents to Pangkep?" pintanya hope it comes to the woman's parents to apply for.

"… ..!" silent woman. Do not think Umar are serious about proposing to her. The woman was terkaget-kaget.

"Later on, Kak. Later, I'll let if people at home is ready! " Umar did not withstand the power of the heart of waiting. Waiting for her painful.

Three days later ...

Umar returned to Makassar City: asalanya. Nobody feels the time spectators-nantika arrived. The woman was called. Heartbeat umar the downpours. Fluctuating rectangular. The woman was greeting awaits. Is there a call to his home or not. Indeed, thrilling glimpses.

"Yes, tomorrow's older brother was able to house!"

Umar's heart explodes-letup. Was finally able to visit to see his parents. Umar set up everything, from physical appearance, and asked to be styled a Lord, "Yes, mudahkan Alloh!"

The next day, at 08.00, Umar to small area: Pangkep. Travel about 300 miles. every time he throws the view out the window of a car, occurred in his heart, "I will face two critical circumstances. Either accepted or rejected! "

Clouds blue cotton soft down. Float low to touch the surface ocean receding away, that's The Pangkep. At precisely 2: 00 pm, arriving in an area that Umar's breadth of 1,112 km2. Umar did not directly to the woman's House. But he was to perform the prayers at the mosque will be in plural dzuhur-qashar with ASR prayers. Remembering him is mushafir. After the prayer, He returned his hand to the top of the menengadahkan, berdo'a with full of hope to Rabbnya, "Yes, everything mudahkanlah Alloh!"

And he closes do'anya, "O who am heart, ordain my heart above your religion."

"Kring ... Kring ... Kring! "sound HP umar reads. It turns out the woman was called out Umar immediately call to his home.

"Please back home, Kak!" said the woman was called soft Umar.

Once again, the heart of Umar are preparing a major event facing panting in her life. This is the first time she applied for women and are accompanied by a single person without the.

Distance to house women's mosque, just 70 steps. Umar went to his home while you say greeting in the door leaf. Then, he was allowed to enter by the woman's family. Umar was rushed in and sat on the sofa luxury. Right in front of the seat, her mother Umar sit. Begin to convey his intention, "Omar's mother, I had good intentions. I was about to apply for a girl child, Mother! "said Umar was very convincing.

The woman's mother tergegun a moment to see the courage of Umar. The mother was not immediately answered, he discusses with some of his son's first. After discussion, it was entered into the home. Sister-sister of the woman represents the best mother, "deck, we still want Hj. Nurnita College, not married!"

Umar sculpting. The response was quite compact, but is capable of meretakkan and blow up the ideals of Umar. Umar knowing that red yarn is not so married women for the Communicator.

"Strong man!" said her heart most in. Make it do not despair. Although the woman's family refused, he did not take heart.

"It might give another soul mate Alloh!" said Umar while merundukkan padangannya to the floor. Umar took a deep breath-length and speak, "My excuse me first!" sound intonation Umar and stuttering weakened.

Finally, He returned to Makassar with great pain.

On top of the cabriolet, cold winds passing storm shutters, menampar-nampar the face of Umar. He throws the view to it while saying, "praise be to Allaah in all circumstances. Ku has been on going for my duty as a man you love someone. Success is not measured by the receipt of the application, but to me it's success is being able to apply for the woman in front of her mother. "

At the tail end of the eye, look deep sadness of Umar. Overflowing overwhelming disappointment. However, Umar was a man of strong, he inevitably moved to tears. He shook off the disappointment of it with always mengigat Alloh's Word, "could well be in thy side was good, but on the side of it's bad for you Alloh."

Three months of trauma of this incident of Umar. This unforgettable memoir during his life. Sometimes tears old linangan settled in mucous eyes. Only do'a as solace for him. In, he enunciates do'anya, "O who am heart, ordain my heart above your religion." He better not get woman, rather than not getting guidance from Alloh (Translated by Bing)
 
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